i failed the bar exam. i didn't pass. i just found out this morning. i feel disappointed in myself, but its okay. it really is. i know that i tried my best in the end. i spent the month of february trying to convince everyone that i should wait until july to take it because i felt too overwhelmed. but johan and close friends pushed me to take it even if i didn't feel ready and be okay with failure.
that was my biggest issue: i was scared of failure. but now that im facing it, im glad that im surrounded by a group of people who love me and have been praying for me. thanks to family and friends who cheered me on and rooted for me. thanks for trying to keep my mind off the results last nite. failure is still painful and embarrassing. but when u have a core group of people who love u and know that this exam is not a measure of the size of my heart or my character, it makes it just a bit easier. and that helps A LOT.
love, p
6 comments:
pajjar, failing and not passing ARE two very different things...you didn't fail...you just didn't pass, that's all, and it's okay, life goes on, and you will pass in the near future...we're in this together...passing the bar. -ML
It'll be okay hun. You still have a lot of things to be proud of and lots of friends and family who are proud of you! There's always next time! We all still love you and will continue to cheer you on!
We all know that everyone fails from time to time and being okay with it and trying to learn from it takes courage, strength, and character! Getting back up and trying harder are qualities you have. You'll be fine and we're still all here for you!
bummed to hear that. what does this mean? can you take it again? will you? keep at it.
Great job keeping your head up. We're sad with you, but we're also hopeful with you that you'll pass hoop in the near future!! Proud of you already for already finishing law school!!
Lysa n Xay
Aww, sorry to hear that pajjar. Always remember that God has given you have LOTS of family and friends who will support you to the end.!
noupheng
You're an amazing person and you're right that this does not measure the size of your heart or character. Moments like this help to define your character. Sometimes it is important to know what it feels like to fall so you know how strong you are when you are able to pick yourself up and do it again. The success, however you define that, will be all the sweeter.
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